THIS middle-aged couple have a very kinky secret.
Tony Williams and Debbie Dowsett have been loved-up since they met 17 years ago.
To most people they look like a pretty conventional pair, but Tony and Debbie have a kinky agreement which lets them have sex with as many people as they like.
Thanks to their open relationship, the lovebirds have bedded 30 other partners in the past four years.
As well as indulging in the odd one-night-stand whenever they fancy, 43-year-old Debbie romps with her four other boyfriends while 59-year-old Tony has two mistresses.
But amazingly the twosome reckon that sleeping around has made their bond much stronger – and they still enjoy a healthier sex life than most couples.
COMMITTED: The couple are in a relationship but can sleep around
“We’re like any other normal, committed couple – the only difference is that we don’t think it’s natural to be monogamous,” Tony told the Mirror.
“Our relationship is more passionate than ever. We make love five times a week and we’re always kissing and cuddling. How many other couples can say that?"
He continued: “The reason it works so well is because we have affairs. People have made nasty comments to us and I’ve been told we’re disgusting but humans aren’t built to be faithful.
“The people who criticise us are usually unhappy in their own relationships. In the time I’ve been with Debbie, I’ve seen so many of my friends go through multiple break ups.
“I can’t help but think an open relationship could have been the answer to their problems.”
Divorced dad-of-four Tony first suggested that they have sexual relations with other people two years after their first meeting, but Debbie was against the idea because she thought he would leave her for another woman.
But back in 2011 she changed her mind after she realised her soaring sex drive was much higher than Tony’s – so the duo both set up profiles on cheaters’ website Illicit Encounters.
Debbie and Tony set up a few ground rules such as always using a condom, taking an STI test every six months and always letting one another know where they were at all times.
SURF: Tony and Debbie often browse cheating websites together
“I knew having sex with other people would stop our relationship from going stale – and I was right,” Tony boasted. “It’s better than ever."
He said: “We’ve only told a few close friends and they have been shocked, because we seem so happy and devoted to each other.
“But when we’ve explained the benefits, a few of them have admitted they wish they had the guts to give it a go.
“I don’t discuss my sex life with my children much, but one of my sons knows I have other girlfriends and he’s told me he’s fine with it if it makes me happy.”
OPEN: Tony and Debbie have a cheeky agreement
Shortly after signing up to the affairs site, Debbie was inundated with offers from men but Tony didn’t attract the same amount of attention.
“There are far more men on the site looking for affairs than there are women,” he said.
“I wasn’t jealous, though. It’s just one of those things. I knew she’d come home to me afterwards and I really enjoyed her newfound confidence in the bedroom.”
Now Debbie divides her time between a Tony and a high-flying businessman, healthcare worker, former film stuntman and another man in his forties.
While Tony dates a married woman and a divorcee who’s 10 years younger than him.
Debbie said: “It was the best decision I’ve ever made. Having lots of boyfriends makes me feel really confident and adventurous but it’s not just about sex.
SAFE SEX: They always have to use protection with other partners
“No matter how much you love your partner, you’ll always fancy other people,” Tony said.
“It’s human nature. The difference is that most people allow themselves to look, but not touch. That’s how frustration and resentment set in.
“Debbie and I have got the best of both worlds – a loving relationship and the freedom to act on our natural urges. We’re not going to go back to being monogamous just because society thinks we should.”
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